How To Avoid Embarrassing Yourself In An Argument - Jordan Peterson

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Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate
How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies
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See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments!
We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.
So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.
1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
7:47 And visual imagery can also help
8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you
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Kevin North
Kevin North 12 minutes ago
So I'm saying Newman gave blowjobs aplenty to get her job and her pay cheque. Prove me wrong.
Bruce Louden
Bruce Louden 9 hours ago
Some day soon the Kathy Newman's of the world will be seen for the dinosaur's that they are. Her mentality and her tactics are almost barbarian.
Big-J 9 hours ago
Kathy clearly has a chip on her shoulders. She is out to prove masculinity, hence the agression.
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Aug24th 14 hours ago
I am myself was long time a character like This Women. Always against anything that thought differently than me. I am so glad that I somehow managed to Exit this Road and startet listening to these kind of Videos and people like Jordan. Still, sometimes there are those "weak" Moments of "Got you!" where afterwards you realize that it was not really helpful. What I learned mostly is to know that you HAVE TO filter in Life. Every time you get inputs in Life, you have to filter and analyze and say, what of this is useful? What of this can improve my position and what is too far off? I think we should think about this process more consciously.
Nk W
Nk W 15 hours ago
Man, Jordan is so good
Glive123 15 hours ago
Kevin Cercie
Kevin Cercie 16 hours ago
The best argument you can ever win is the one you never start
Guitarded 17 hours ago
let's not forget that jordan peterson was ambushed in this interview and he had no idea he was going on with someone who was going to be so divisive and frankly a bully. he smashed that interview xD
ram29jackson 18 hours ago
does he not realize these things are scripted and staged?
It's like watching a girl's softball team play against an MLB team...lol
omgwtfbbq Day ago
The gotcha was needed. You don't put in that amount of work without getting one in every now and again.
Donagh Cronin
JP is brilliant.
Danny Moore
Danny Moore Day ago
Just so you know, channel 4 gets handouts from the EU along with the BBC, so nothing they report is the truth, and they simply avoid reporting anything they don't like, regardless if it's news or not.
Danny Moore
Danny Moore Day ago
He Pwned Newman.
Disco Devil
Disco Devil Day ago
Well Lobsters taste better, so how could they not have a good society? I'd respond like that because I'm more of a comedian than a politician.
Toxic Stoic
Toxic Stoic Day ago
Cathy "So what you're saying" Newman
THis is why universal suffrage is a bad thing.
crystalawen Day ago
Someone should put a sock in that irritating, gobby womans mouth...
Lance2773 Day ago
Wow, there is some serious genius here ! Glad I found this. I needed this. Thanks.
John Adkins
John Adkins Day ago
"Well, I think....." "You know, Hitler 'thought' too......"
Gonzalo Melendez
Poor woman Jp turn her into a joke ! She probably regrets this interview lol
Plane Speech
Plane Speech Day ago
She turned herself into a joke. JP just beat her to the punchline.
I love breaking these down as well. Your analysis is spot-on. Thanks for doing it!
Jordan epitomizes the "POWER" of competent male energy. Newman served as the perfect illustration of almost every point he made regarding issues with Feme-Bullies.
Newman is the perfect caricature of socialism in a dress... What an UGLY soul.
Philip Ketchum
Mr Peterson is one of the best. Right along with the late Charles Krauthammer.
Michael K
Michael K Day ago
Punch your aggressor in the throat
Excellent forensics of a conversation. Easy to understand and visualise the concepts. Jordan is a mind apart tho! and as for the interviewer...well her pedigree is dubious but known. She stood no chance.
Lizeth Gutierrez
As a woman, I feel bad for this lady’s husband.
Gary Wordsworth
Gary Wordsworth 2 hours ago
If you knew what her milk sop of a husband was like you really wouldn't feel sorry for him......
PeggyAnn 2 days ago
I love Jordan. So smart.
specialkalberta 2 days ago
There's another interview between Jordan Peterson and Wendy Mesley that was similar to this video. I should rewatch it and see if Jordan used the same techniques, probably did because I seen to recall him effectively disarming her. The word disarming is used because like this video he was definitely under attack from a leftist interviewer, what a surprise
Greg Kates
Greg Kates 2 days ago
Learn to pernounce presumption.
David Shaddix
David Shaddix 2 days ago
Peterson is masterful in these situations.
Hello Corp
Hello Corp 2 days ago
I wouldnt have said Gotch'ya, i would have said Checkmate.
david mc mahon
david mc mahon 2 days ago
It a bit like pissing down you'r back and trying to tell you it's raining!
Q Tē
Q Tē 2 days ago
Truth is truth 😉
Q Tē
Q Tē 2 days ago
Actually @07:55 it's plain and simple🙈
Q Tē
Q Tē 2 days ago
Exactly why you never let a "q"uestion unanswered, take them back & keep them to exactly the words they spoke😏 and or asked😜
mr dashin
mr dashin 2 days ago
If you feel the need to say gotcha. Instead say see we agree to lock them into the position of your point of view. Even if they disagree the viewers will agree with you.
Mystery Man
Mystery Man 2 days ago
Damm conversations are harder than fighting games those word combos are very hard to do for a normal person XD
Janet Rothstein
Janet Rothstein 2 days ago
Wish I could make up my own mind and watch the interview in longer clips. He barely could say anything .She was so aggressive. I’d really like to see you in a debate!
jason triplett
jason triplett 2 days ago
how could Peterson agree to this waste of time interview? good video btw
Prodesu 2 days ago
How to avoid being embarrassing: featuring Jordan Peterson? Yikes.
Malky Headbutt
Malky Headbutt 2 days ago
5:04 "Your body is signalling to your brain that you're in control....." Surely your brain sends a signal to your body to relax first!!?? ......I no longer trust myself......
Ashley Stroebel
Ashley Stroebel 2 days ago
Great Video...Damn Son
kamuelalee 2 days ago
Cathy is the Mistress of Why...Why, Why, and Why?
kathy breda
kathy breda 2 days ago
Smash that like button!
slab6046 3 days ago
It explains every single interview he is involved in. He is always attacked verbally and is always so pissy when he answers.
Raniere 3 days ago
"so you're saying.."
Steven Johnson
Steven Johnson 3 days ago
This is why she should be paid less. LOL
Peter Kay
Peter Kay 3 days ago
You are wrong about one thing...the "GOTCHA" moment. WE ALL deal with people like HER! Catching her CAUGHT everyone guilty of her behaviour!!!!
S R Anselam
S R Anselam 2 days ago
Agree. Can't convince Newman .. she still thinks she won that debate
Peter Kay
Peter Kay 3 days ago
No offence but this is a beautiful analysis!!!
smell my finger
smell my finger 3 days ago
Christopher Hitchins was a beast in debates but Professor P is also very impressive. Newman is so far out of her depth its embarrassing.
Timon van Dael
Timon van Dael 3 days ago
0:22 I don't know in which part of that interview you found cathy's annoying strategy 'subtle'
Lord Fancourt
Lord Fancourt 3 days ago
What a shrew that lady is! I just want to slap her arrogant face. Bullying, aggressive, pushy, driving her personal agenda. A horrible person. Great breakdown of the arguments and analysis. More, please!
arbys exploror
arbys exploror 3 days ago
Woah does Cathy have a dab pen
Цаце Цацевски
He destroyed her like plus ultra damage.
NickieB 3 days ago
That gotcha moment might bot have been the best for the moment, but Cathy DESERVED it
Sean M
Sean M 3 days ago
I have liberal friends who constantly do exactly what she did. This is a helpful video for so many reasons. One thing I notice liberals do, however, is they don't WANT you to slow down the tempo and have you address their questions, they just want to keep moving, keep barraging you with unrelated questions. If you were in a swimming pool with them, liberals are the ones who just want to hold your head underwater and not let you up for air. Thank God I don't swim with liberals.
Wesley417 3 days ago
Ugly crazy white woman
Kevin B
Kevin B 3 days ago
So you’re saying she should be cast adrift at sea? Not cool guys, not cool.
Peter Childs
Peter Childs 3 days ago
My country, Australia is failing badly with multicultural integration.. it fails because it’s impossible to achieve, especially with the ideology of Islam. Do not place Australia as an example of success as it’s not, and it’s ignorant to think so.
AUDIOHOSTEM187 3 days ago
William William
William William 3 days ago
Kathy deserved that "gotcha" at the end.
Bill Fisher
Bill Fisher 3 days ago
Very helpful breakdown. Thank you
Fran Sahm
Fran Sahm 4 days ago
Jordan is never trying to win. He is all about the facts.
Andrew ward
Andrew ward 4 days ago
I disagree with you that she would’ve been happy to learn that they actually agree. I think she actually hates that when she realizes it. She’s so clearly biased, she doesn’t want to agree with him
Sober Sherpa
Sober Sherpa 4 days ago
Wish Joan Rivers was alive - she would have a field day with this lady.
Sober Sherpa
Sober Sherpa 4 days ago
She is obviously a obnoxious manipulator
Zatocrew 4 days ago
Sure that 'Got you!' didn't improve Peterson's persuasive power but she totally diserved it, I hope she realized that straw men conversations don't do any good to society. Well done JP
Theo T
Theo T 4 days ago
he banged her and then ditched her..lol, love it.
Marriet Visser
Marriet Visser 4 days ago
This is a very helpful post. Thank you for the lovely tips.
SwordsHeldHigh 4 days ago
Far right is the biggest threat to humanity and must be fought
Kal T
Kal T 4 days ago
Arguements and debates are mostly useless, rarely lead to changes, and are largely ignored. If you want to defeat a bully, there's no better way to, than actions. People remember nearly 250 years later that George Washington crossed the Delaware River to surprise attack the British, but 20 years from now no one will have any idea that this Peterson debate even happened.
trident3b 4 days ago
3:18 and 3:25 "woman"?
Tread Softly
Tread Softly 4 days ago
Kathy is overly aggressive and rude. She is an attacker and he knows it. It's very hard to listen to this bully. He has handled it very well.
Ryan McCarthy
Ryan McCarthy 4 days ago
I watched this breakdown Relaxed.
kamuelalee 2 days ago
I sat back in my seat and said, "bring it on, baby!"
Wasim Babili
Wasim Babili 4 days ago
I just look like that. But I am very friendly.
Wasim Babili
Wasim Babili 4 days ago
I understand your point. I just dont know how to calculate other people feelings. I can try to understand them. But that's about it.
Wasim Babili
Wasim Babili 4 days ago
Thank you. Very useful. Honestly. I appreciate you guys.
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